I need someone to talk to, and without that it would break me, as it has many times in the past.
Yes people have to do the work themselves and make a choice truly be themselves and to love. But everyone here makes a big difference, in my life, even if they don't know they do
I have not given up on any of the people here in my community.
But part of this inclination of others to pull away from you is likely because, from what you've said here, it seems like you are looking for the same experience of their pulling away to continue to confirm itself in your external world, and so you are preemptively asking people not to give you that experience over again, not understanding that approaching people in that way makes them feel like they want to pull away because you are making your experience of life contingent upon someone else's reaction to you - and that's a lot to ask of another human being.
No one is responsible for your experience of life but you.
Stop expecting the same treatment over and over and it is likely you will cease to receive it.
Whatever you do, don't give up on me.
I need someone to talk to, and without that it would break me, as it has many times in the past.
Yes people have to do the work themselves and make a choice truly be themselves and to love. But everyone here makes a big difference, in my life, even if they don't know they do
I have not given up on any of the people here in my community.
But part of this inclination of others to pull away from you is likely because, from what you've said here, it seems like you are looking for the same experience of their pulling away to continue to confirm itself in your external world, and so you are preemptively asking people not to give you that experience over again, not understanding that approaching people in that way makes them feel like they want to pull away because you are making your experience of life contingent upon someone else's reaction to you - and that's a lot to ask of another human being.
No one is responsible for your experience of life but you.
Stop expecting the same treatment over and over and it is likely you will cease to receive it.
I haven't seen anyone pull away from me here. But if they do they certainly have a right to. It's been a great experience
It's just sometimes I get in my head, engage in and act out in clear transference in high places, and panic.
Thank you, makes a lot of sense, thank you again, and the community.
o my. some days! seeing it written, so clearly, is sooo very affirming! validating. helpful in clearing my path & in straightening my thoughts.
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ALL good quotes today
A universal message to start the week. Great one by the crew @ Starcodes. Always a pleasure to see you in the feed.
Thank you so much! 🙏🏻💜💫
Not physically possible, you’re only going to make people anxious when they can’t figure out how to comply!